Posted on February 8, 2009 by benjamin67
Repairing my friendship with Tom has had an unexpected benefit.
I have hated our new church almost since I first set foot in the door. I think that is because I had unresolved business at my old church. Today I found that I actually got a lot out of the service (the music was awesome…thanks [...]
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Posted on February 3, 2009 by benjamin67
Yesterday, I met with a friend that I had not spoken to because of an argument. He had told me over a year ago that he was sorry, but I was not ready to hear it. I probably “accepted” his apology at the time. But my hope was that I would [...]
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Posted on November 3, 2008 by benjamin67
So I really intended to write about politics today. Then I read a friends blog. Someone who commented on his entry made a comment that I have heard all my life. For the sake of argument, I will boil down the sentiment being expressed: God is a Republican.
I think I have been fairly honest about [...]
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Posted on October 19, 2008 by benjamin67
Week 3 of Sunday school: This week is about being thankful. It is funny how I can be so cynical in adult worship, but so open to God while teaching Sunday school. In spite of all my negative mutterings on this blog, I am stunned by God’s sustaining my family. Statistically, I should be divorced [...]
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Posted on September 17, 2008 by benjamin67
Spiritually I am in the pits. Actually it is the sub-pits. I have to look up to see the pits. For reasons that are pretty clear to me that I do not want to get into now, my theological tower collapsed. Belief is very much like the game of Jenga. You can toss out bits [...]
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Posted on July 13, 2008 by benjamin67
On a whim, I bought tickets to the National Symphony Orchestra. We needed something to break the cloud of sadness that currently surrounds our house. I really wish when they told us that we needed to begin cathing, that we just would have started right then. The dread almost seems worse than the task itself. [...]
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Posted on June 2, 2008 by benjamin67
So yesterday afternoon we were going to celebrate Jenn’s birthday since on her real B-day we are going to be at the clinic all day. Then we remembered, we had a membership meeting that we had to attend at our new church. Normally, I would not have rushed into membership. But since Jenn is on [...]
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Posted on May 7, 2008 by benjamin67
So…Yesterday…is over for now.
Ethan was scheduled for an MRI at 10:30. Since kids cannot sit still long enough for the test, they have to be given general anesthesia. So they wanted us to show up at 9:00 to do all the paperwork and pre-op stuff. We left the house a little after 7. It [...]
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Posted on April 1, 2008 by benjamin67
Over the weekend, my wife had to visit our former church. Before we had left the church, she had committed to be a confirmation sponsor. That commitment was fulfilled but she had to show up for the actual confirmation service.
To her credit, she kept a poker face the whole time. But it was clear when [...]
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I Strongly Believe
I had a friend my first year of college that prefaced almost every statement with, “I strongly believe.” The older I get the less this sentiment resonates with me. In my twenties, I was dogmatic about a lot of things. Chief among my strong beliefs were my views on faith and politics. On both points, [...]
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