Posted on August 3, 2009 by benjamin67
This is it, surgery week. Each of Ethan’s surgeries has come with its challenges. This time it is that he has to fast for 4 days. He can have liquids, but I cannot imagine that making much of a difference.
Over the weekend, we took him to Hershey Park. Today Jenn is taking him to our [...]
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Posted on January 13, 2009 by benjamin67
This is your gut
Today has been all about meetings, one right after another. I am sitting at my desk for the first time today. I need to think about something other than work. So I blog.
We just got a surgery date for Ethan. He is having a Malone procedure. Unlike all of his previous surgeries, [...]
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Posted on December 10, 2008 by benjamin67
Yesterday. Woof!
Yesterday was a mess. It started at about 12:45am. Ethan had a bad asthma attack. He came into our room and was barking. I went to get his nebulizer, but he did not sound too bad. By the time I got back to our room, Ethan was having a full on panic attack [...]
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Posted on November 8, 2008 by benjamin67
I was sooooo looking forward to sleeping Friday night. The plan was to sleep in till 8 or 9. Ethan apparently had other plans. He contracted another UTI, probably because he is not the best and scrubbing his hands before cathing. At 4 he came into our room complaining of stomach cramps…oh no…here we go [...]
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Posted on November 4, 2008 by benjamin67
Today was supposed to be our biannual visit to the spina bifida. But as “luck” would have it, Ethan had a stomach virus and could not go. Awe…shucks, I so look forward to going into DC to get bad news. Now I could have gone into work. But I already had the day off and [...]
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Posted on September 18, 2008 by benjamin67
Ethan had an endoscopy today. We were hoping the esophogitis might have gotten a little better. No dice. We have alleviated almost every allergen from his diet and stopped allergy shots. But there is no change. We will probably have to go back to Johns Hopkins for more tests. Oh joy.
On other fronts, we are [...]
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Posted on August 26, 2008 by benjamin67
Today Jenn and I are meeting with Ethan’s new teacher and the school nurse. I call this entry the moment of truth because I have found that people in general have one of two reactions when they hear the word incontinent. Either they do the “oh, ok…no big deal” or you get the deer in [...]
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Posted on August 25, 2008 by benjamin67
This morning I had my annual (mmm…well…bi-decade) physical. Since I am over 40, I had a visit from Dr. Jellyfinger. My doctor and I are friends, so I sang “Getting to know you” during the deed. Considering the awful things I have had to do to Ethan over the years. I decided 30 seconds of [...]
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Posted on July 24, 2008 by benjamin67
Jenn told me something last night that almost made me cry. While she was giving Ethan his enema, he asked if he “tried” real hard could he stop having the enema and catheterizations. Sadly, I think it is finally dawning on him that his life is not exactly like his friends.
On another front we [...]
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The Ick Factor…rated G for Gross
Halloween was great…blah blah blah.
So this morning, I was doing the “procedure” with my spawn, when the catheter came out of his rear. This is a bad thing. Trust me. One word sums it up spray.
Sooooo I was a little grossed out (trust me on this…I am not easily grossed out). Luckily my wife was [...]
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