Posted on February 3, 2009 by benjamin67
Yesterday, I met with a friend that I had not spoken to because of an argument. He had told me over a year ago that he was sorry, but I was not ready to hear it. I probably “accepted” his apology at the time. But my hope was that I would [...]
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Posted on February 1, 2009 by benjamin67
So tomorrow is the day I am meeting with an old friend who was indirectly responsible for really hurting my wife. When I asked for the meeting, I was not sure what I would say. Funny thing. The act of asking for the meeting seems to have released a lot of the anger I felt. [...]
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Posted on January 25, 2009 by benjamin67
I could never answer the question: What do you want to be when you grow up?
I had two reoccurring nightmares as a child.
Jesus is tied to the railroad tracks and I am trying to untie him before the train rolls over him.
Satan is in the sewer drain and drags me by the ankles to hell.
I [...]
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Posted on October 9, 2008 by benjamin67
I have a new favorite book. It is David Sedaris’ book When You Are Engulfed in Flames. Two things really struck me about the book. First I love the way he peals away at his own hypocrisy. It really is damning. Christians tend to think they have a monopoly on hypocrisy, but it really is [...]
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Posted on September 15, 2008 by benjamin67
Some days are just better than other. Some days are just great. Today is one of those days.
Work was work; but I did have a nice lunch out in the pavilion.
After work, I took Ethan to his baseball game. It was a perfect night for baseball. We were on the nice field, it was [...]
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Posted on September 6, 2008 by benjamin67
Last night Jenn and I were lazing around the house watching “Terminator” reruns. Ethan came in for the night so we switched off that channel and tried to find something age appropriate. The Incredibles was on, but Ethan was not interested. He wanted to watch The Backyardigans. My brain can only coast in neutral so [...]
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Posted on May 27, 2008 by benjamin67
I want noodle salad. Watch the clip and you will understand.
At my old church, I attended a Men’s retreat. We were in small groups and the leader asked everyone to share the greatest moment of their lives. Without exception, all of them said, the birth of their child. That my friend [...]
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Posted on May 17, 2008 by benjamin67
The Fam and I went out to dinner with some friends from our old church. They felt the need to tell Jenn and me how awful the new music director is.
It was my hope that I had “moved on” since leaving Floris. But their comments lanced a hidden boil in my soul. It just [...]
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Posted on May 7, 2008 by benjamin67
So…Yesterday…is over for now.
Ethan was scheduled for an MRI at 10:30. Since kids cannot sit still long enough for the test, they have to be given general anesthesia. So they wanted us to show up at 9:00 to do all the paperwork and pre-op stuff. We left the house a little after 7. It [...]
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Posted on April 20, 2008 by benjamin67
Ethan gets his Uniform
He is so proud of his uniform.
He can’t wait to play
After getting washed out by rain last week, Ethan finally had his opening game. He begged us to join the league, and I think it was well worth the investment. He had so much fun.
I feel so blessed. It was just a [...]
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